The Wise Mind
It is Time to Transform into Your Most Empowered Sense of Self!
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Life Architect & Coaching
What is coaching with you like?
You know how people give you unsolicited advice and it feels like they aren’t even listening to what you really need, want, and desire? Have you ever poured yourself out to someone just to have them look back at you blankly like they have no idea what to do with what you shared?
Yeah, I’ve felt those things and more, and coaching with me will be the exact opposite. You will leave our sessions with a clearly defined set of outcomes and massive action steps you will take until we meet again – and raise the bar even higher!
*Bonus: informed trauma care and heart-centered healing are signatures of working with me so come with your closet full of skeletons because we’re gonna clear it out!
I have a therapist, shrink, sponsor, and/or mentor in my life already.
Awesome! I have many of those in my life as well. I believe in building a team around me that exemplifies success in their given area or field. I find it important to evaluate the members of my team to make sure we are on the same page and all working toward the same goal.
As a coach, I bring a non-biased set of eyes and ears into your experiences and with my unique questions and ability to hear what is not being said, I can make sure your self-awareness is firing on all cylinders and you’re blind spots are no longer lost in your peripherals.
Do you guarantee my success?
I guarantee if you keep doing things the way you always have you will keep getting the things you already got. It is up to you to do the work after our sessions. You can’t pay someone else to do your push-ups for you – and my schedule is already full doing my own push-ups.
Our time together is going to be work and the payoff will be a return on your investment in yourself through me like none other.
When and where do we meet?
In-person if we are near one another otherwise Zoom is my favorite communication platform.
As far as when…we coordinate the best time for you so our sessions together are seamless, connective, and enjoyable.
I didn’t use the word comfortable, because I am going to push you outside your comfort zone – but they will be enjoyable, some of the time, I promise.
I want to share openly, how private are these sessions?
I do not have a medical or law degree but I adhere to their patient/client confidentiality rules and ethos.
Whatever you say to me stays with me. I know how important it is for you to be vulnerable and feel safe sharing with me – and we co-create a relationship where you know you are safe in your sharing.
NLP Training &
How will NLP help me?
From my own perspective, I remember being completely overwhelmed at different times in my life, when I simply couldn’t work out a solution and felt really frustrated.
What NLP gave me was a set of tools to at least set out on a path, which eventually revealed the solution.
I believe that we all face recurring challenges, difficulties where we feel stuck and need insight or a new perspective, but without guidance we struggle to get that perspective.
The only time we ever truly transcend a problem is when we get new, fresh thinking about it. In other words, we experience the problem from a different level of consciousness.
Had I not found NLP I am not sure what my sobriety, my recovery, and my life in general would be – but I can attest that my old way of thinking wasn’t going to get me to where I am today.
Is this useful for my personal life or professional career?
So often people don’t feel fully comfortable in their own skin, feeling that they are caught between ‘a rock and a hard place’ in their life. Each person has their own unique life-blueprint, which tends to follow common patterns. Some examples:
- Feeling you are not enough, or have some form of imposter syndrome
- Feeling exhausted along with a belief you must take on life’s burden single-handed.
- Feeling disappointed in a key area(s): health, career, relationships, wealth or happiness.
What all these life blueprints share is the idea of conditional love: that we are not intrinsically love-able unless we do something. Sadly, these blueprints are a by-product of growing up in any society because of the lack of emotional intelligence inherent in our combined cultural upbringings.
People often split their personal and professional lives because of the buzz phrase, “work/life balance. In reality they’re not separate. When someone resolves their personal issues this is also reflected in huge improvements in their professional issues – and vice versa.
No matter what I try nothing seems to work!?
Do you ever have a groundhog day ‘here we go again’ type of feeling, then beat yourself up for reacting the same way…again? We’ll cover principles and ideas to answer your questions about why you get into familiar situations or patterns, over, and over, and over again – and help you link these behaviors to your unconscious motivators and values.
The key to not getting hooked on the bait is to understand your own, often subconscious, reactions and the origins of why you behave the ways you do. This level of self-awareness is the power source for you to stop yourself in the moment and choose to behave in a more desirable manner.
How long is the course? Will I earn a certification?
The course is three hour sessions for 12-weeks. There is an immersion day at the beginning and two immersion days at the end – meaning a full eight hour day.
The two days at the end are when you will take all of the tools, resources, and strategies you have learned over the 12-weeks and coach a partner through blocks they are having in their life. The will also do the same with you.
Once you graduate you will have earned certification as a:
NLP Life Coach
NLP Executive Coach
NLP Time Dynamics Practioner
Still not clear on what NLP is?
NLP is amazing AND it is all around you. NLP is based on how the five primary senses, touch, taste, sight, sound, and smell, bring our brains information. That information is then filtered and processed by your brain, in a way that is individualized to you, and from that you create your reality in your head.
NLP teaches you how to experience life differently than you’ve been programmed. This is why it is so effective in helping people overcome trauma, addiction, depression, guilt, and shame (to name a few.)
NLP isn’t magic, though it has been discussed as such. NLP at its root is a series of strategies, tools, and resources that were modeled from people who were able to accomplish great things in every field of study, employment, relationships, and personal growth.
NLP will only change everything…once you embrace it and adopt its principles into your daily life.
I promise. It changed everything for me. I know it can bring you similar results. You merely have to work at it like any other practice you desire to master.
Everything you desire is on the other side of your Comfort Zone!
Your mind is like a parachute, it works best when it is open.
You can read all the books in the world, join every program around, and attend all the conferences out there, but if you don’t change the way you think nothing will be able to break through the limitations you have placed upon yourself.
Develop your growth-mindset to become your default way of thinking.
Is your Life guided by Love or Fear?
I believe fear is the foundation for everything that holds us back as a species. From fear of failure, to fear of success, and everything in between – Fear exists in you, so harness it!
Your mission, should you choose to accept it, is to lead your Life with LOVE!
You are NOT stuck, you are standing still.
Everything you desire in life is created by taking action each and everyday. Taking action is a choice. Not taking action is a choice. If it is important enough to you nothing will stop you from prioritizing it in your life.
Connecting to your “Big Why” is your source for your motivation to Take Action!
True growth is devloped with day-to-day discipline. How you talk to yourself, how you choose to experience your life, how you present yourself to the world – your habits create your identity, and thus your life.
Embrace your discipline and change your micro-habits through self-awareness.
When the rubber meets the road.
Your ability to be flexible, in the face of a world where planning is priceless, yet plans tend to be worthless, will greatly determine the likelihood you continue to push forward.
Exercise flexibility in your thinking, doing, and being. Rigidity can cause even the strongest material to break.
The Wise Mind Empowerment HUB
Grow and Evolve through learning how (to):
…And so much more! This list could go on for about as long as my podcasts run
I love The Tribe!
This is just such a wonderful community to be part of and I feel blessed every day.
Its beautiful and amazing to watch us all grow and be there for one another.
The support and love is felt 🙏🏻🙌🏼💞
– Karen L.
You know how you’ve purchased self-help: books, courses, PDFs and partially, or maybe even fully, read them, and yet seemingly failed to apply and implement the teachings and lessons in them?
Perhaps you’ve joined a program(s) just to fizzle out before any real, long-lasting change, or deep understanding has even had the opportunity to root itself and integrate into your life.
Let’s go another step further. You attend a meeting, workshop, seminar, or conference, and you leave the event feeling fully inspired, motivated, and ready to charge through a wall like a bull running through Pamplona. Then life, outside of the cocoon the event created for you, comes whooshing right back in front and all around you. Wanna know why?
Goodbye self-sabotage and rumination
Jesse, our tribe, and NLP has helped me to better process waves of emotions and/or flashbacks I get regarding past trauma in my life. This has improved my overall well-being as I am more aware of, and better at, processing those emotions as they come instead of succumbing to rumination and self sabotage.
– Lindsay VM.
The main problem can be traced back to your thoughts, feelings, and the emotional state you were in when you decided to buy the self-help material or when you left the event you attended.
Here’s a quick grasp of this, because once you hear it, you will see this result in so many of your previous behaviors and actions that, at the time, didn’t even register as a programmed pattern within you.
Everything is Amazingly Different!
Actual sobriety and actual recovery is effn mind blowing. Effn mind blowing. Everything, everyone, every situation, every circumstance, every relationship, every responsibility, every decision…EVERYTHING is different. Thank you Jesse for everything you do and for being a huge part of this!
– Tim J
We all know what it feels like to be truly inspired. In those moments of absolute inspiration our motivation is to the moon and back. Back to the main problem…when we leave that cocoon or life sets in, our brain has left the space of being stimulated by the material and now we are right back to our normal, everyday, thoughts and feelings.
The key to keeping you inspired, motivated, and ready to climb mountains is using your brains own built in chemistry for habit creation and reward systems circuitry.
The material, events, and even life and work related projects, you have seen through to fruition, have all manipulated this chemistry and circuitry for your benefit – and those things you have left half-finished, if even that far along, have not fired off those same receptors in your brain that previously fueled you toward completion.
Forever Grateful - #TribeStrong
I found the the sobriety to recovery podcast at a crucial time, when I was on the brink of stopping drinking. The podcast has, in more ways than one, not only changed my life, but the TRIBE has given me a support system I needed in these early stages of my sobriety. The lessons, the conversations, the things I needed to hear, all came with the podcast and the conversations with my tribe members. I’ll always be grateful to Jesse and the tribe for being there for me. I’m happy to say I’m 157 days sober with their help. #tribestrong
– Shane L.
Imagine if you could knowingly experience your brain being rewarded for working on your tasks, to-do’s, and goals!
Imagine if you could feel the motivation coursing through your veins, knowing your confidence can be called upon anytime you need it to help fire you up.
Imagine living your life with curiosity and interest, then guiding that energy toward discovering your inner-most passions.
Uncovering your gifts, your fullest potential, your purpose in life, is something you have most certainly thought about over the course of your life.
Imagination & dreams were never meant to be the sole domain of children.
Your imagination is at play every time you have a thought. Until you take the thought, and create it outside of your head, it is just an idea – it’s not tangible.
The doing is what makes it reality… well, at least your version of your subjective reality.
Empower your most authentic self!
“From Sobriety to Recovery,” on Instagram, was my first introduction to Jesse’s programs to empower your most authentic self. Wise Mind Empowerment, NLP, his podcast, and the Tribe are all added bonuses that keep me on track and accountable.
Thank you Jesse, truly, Glow on!
– Krystal B.
I know you are ready to create the life and lifestyle you have dreamed about, thought about – desired for yourself – for as long as you can remember.
As a child, from the moment you could even grasp what thoughts and feelings are, you began to envision a life you want for yourself. Somewhere along the way things went a different way than you thought and felt they would – and that is both okay and a solution opportunity at the same time. I sincerely believe I am the person to help guide you there because EVERYTHING I talk about, teach on, and openly discuss, I first apply on myself, evaluate the results, and apply, and evaluate on a loop until I achieve my desireable outcome.
I can assure you…this is an ongoing, never-ending process I embrace every single day.
I know you’ll join me because you want an All The Way UP Life too…yes, you do, and NOW is the time.
Your show inspires me man!
Thank you so much!! I’m still early in my recovery but I love your podcast. I started late in the show and today I resolved to go and start from the beginning. 😁
The Wise Mind
It is Time to Transform into Your Most Empowered Sense of Self!